WHO WE ARE
Tonglen is a non-partisan and secular volunteer organization founded in Piedmont in 2001, whose members are people of all cultural and/or religious backgrounds who recognize a common sensitivity in the face of physical, psychological, social and spiritual suffering that manifests itself at the end of life and in illness.
Tonglen studies, practices and teaches empathic end-of-life counseling, using a method inspired by both the most modern discoveries in neuroscience and quantum physics and the most ancient teachings of Tibetan Buddhism on death and dying.
WHAT WE DO
Tonglen volunteers, through a specific training course, have developed a quality of presence and listening that they make available free of charge to people who suffer.
• for having received an unfortunate diagnosis,
• to have to communicate it to others,
• because they feel deprived of adequate means when they find themselves accompanying someone who has reached the end of his life,
• because I am dealing with a grief that is difficult to process.
Tonglen volunteers work in teams, because only in a group can they guarantee a constant presence alongside the people they accompany.
While placing the patient at the centre, the support is always addressed to his entire family and often also to his therapists.
The training of volunteers in empathic accompaniment of suffering takes place within the Organization and is guaranteed by Tonglen.
PERSONAL SERVICES
TONGLEN TELEPHONE ESCORT
If you are struggling with the pain of receiving a dire diagnosis, not knowing how to help a loved one whose life is ending, or are finding it difficult to grieve, call us for a telephone appointment where we can discuss with you how we can help.
HOME OR OUR OFFICE ASSISTANCE
If the conditions of the person to be accompanied do not allow an accompaniment to the office, we will travel. We will follow the accompanied person and his family at home and in the hospital, within the limits of the availability of the team. This service is carried out mainly in Turin and its province.
PHOWA AND TONGLEN AT A DISTANCE
Thousands of people have used this service, carried out by about sixty volunteer members who know the traditional practices well and carry them out at the time of request.
Knowing that someone is meditating for you when you are in great difficulty is often a source of joy and relief.
EMPATHETIC ACCOMPANIMENT OF ANIMALS AT THE END OF LIFE
Twenty-four million Italians share their lives with an animal companion, a close and enriching emotional relationship.
But what happens when the life of an animal friend comes to an end?
How can we help him and ourselves in that painful moment that often reactivates other griefs from the past in us?
Part of our team has specialized in this particular type of accompaniment. Go to the page.
TRAINING
Tonglen promotes the culture of end-of-life support, as a right of all citizens, through awareness evenings and in-depth discussions on the topic. Go to events.
The Association is a training center for multiple Counseling schools. Go to training.
EXTERNAL CONTRIBUTIONS
The empathic accompaniment of suffering, promoted by the Tonglen Association, came through the teaching of Dr. Daniela Muggia, thanatologist and President of Tonglen:
• in the continuing medical training of hospital staff (AOU of Parma, 2005-2010) and nursing staff (Piedmont Region, 2013);
• in the training of Hospice staff (ASL CN2, 2010);
• in the information and training of not only the staff but also the relatives of patients in intensive care (AOU of Parma, Intensive Cardiac Surgery Unit, 2010. The method became a pilot project in the Hospital and then a Regional pilot project);
• in high-level university training (the Master's Degree of the University of Rome Tre on Pedagogy and Thanatology, 2013): Empathic accompaniment of the person at the end of life with an internship at the Association in 2013;
• as a professional diploma for operators in ECEL (Empathic Care of the End of Life – Empathic support for suffering related to the end of life) through a non-formal, informal and continuous education training path provided by the In Corde Scientia Popular University.
SUPPORT US WITH A DONATION
The purpose of our association is to follow you in difficult times and so we ask you to support us as best you can so that we can extend our help to more and more people and to allow us to be able to create something special for everyone in total gratuity.
You can make a donation by bank transfer or PayPal, specifying your name and surname. Send an email to segreteria@tonglen.it with the payment receipt to request certification for tax purposes. The donation is deductible from income tax.
We thank you for your support which "helps us to help" others.
DONATE YOUR 5×1000
It costs nothing but it helps our constant work to reach more people with empathic accompaniment and to spread the knowledge of ancient practices that even today can make the end of life of many people more humane and serene. Tonglen Association Fiscal Code: 95569940018
TESTAMENTARY BEQUESTS
With a testamentary bequest, it is possible to decide to donate part of one's assets to the Tonglen ODV Association, contributing to the realization of one or more of our projects. The testator, if he wishes, can indicate the purposes of use of the devolved assets to which the Association is required to adhere.
It is sufficient to indicate the name of the association:
Registered office: Tonglen ODV c/o Studio Lodigiani via Bricherasio, 18 - 10129 Turin (TO)
Tax code: 95569940018
SUPPORT A SCHOLARSHIP IN ECEL
So that you know in detail the project we invite you to participate in, download and read our proposal. Join us, invest in a scholarship! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for what you will do, even if it is just a drop.
DONATION BY BANK TRANSFER
Addressed to: Tonglen ODV
Iban: IT05R0200830520000005194398
Bank: UniCredit Branch of Giaveno (TO)
DONATION WITH PAYPAL
BECOME A MEMBER
Anyone who applies to the Board of Directors in accordance with the procedures set out in the statute may become a member of the Tonglen ODV Association. Each application for membership must be approved, after verifying the objective requirements set out in this statute and in the association regulations, by an absolute majority of the members of the Board of Directors. The Board of Directors may deny membership when there are justified reasons, by adopting a resolution motivated in accordance with the statute.
The founding values of the Tonglen ODV Association are benevolence, empathy, individual ethics, non-judgment and authenticity. We live them through listening, being present to ourselves and sharing experiences. Confidentiality, acceptance and respect for the ideas and wishes of the patient and his family are at the heart of our work.
The member who aspires to serve as a companion undertakes to:
Fill out the membership application form. This form, duly completed, is automatically sent to the Association's secretariat: segreteria@tonglen.it
Contact us for all information.
BECOME A VOLUNTEER
If you want to participate in the activity of accompanying people in mourning or with terminal illness, you can access the training course provided within Tonglen and begin to support the team with the guidance of one of our tutors. It is an amazing journey of personal growth that can lead you to a new vision of life and death and to greater inner serenity. Read the Code of Ethics.
But there are other ways to participate in Tonglen activities:
Contact us for all information.
Tonglen is a Volunteer Organization in Turin.
Our team is ready to answer and support you always.
For information on our activities and projects you can send us a message or contact us at the following addresses:
Site:
via Massena, 82 - 10128 Torino (TO)
Phone and WhatsApp:
39 339 440 59 61 (evening hours)
E-mail:
segreteria@tonglen.it
Registered office and postal address:
Tonglen ODV c/o Studio Lodigiani
via Bricherasio, 18 - 10129 Turin (TO)